YOU

You continue to pursue your goals with relentless focus. You value your time and your privacy, and there is an uncompromising intentionality with which you navigate your world. You are ready to apply that same integrity to how you navigate love and connection, which is why you are here.

You understand that the way you love and connect reflects the story of your life. It is an extension of how you live, and you are ready to audit your internal landscape, ensuring you are positioned to attract, recognize, pursue, and sustain a connection that is aligned with your values and as rigorous as your own ambition.

Knowing that your time and your attention are your most precious resources, you are proactive. You participate thoughtfully. You are open to feedback and keep an open mind to refining your approach. You are seeking someone you can trust with your vision of connection, a partner in this process who will protect your values, advocate for your needs, and stand for the future you are building.

Welcome. You have come to the right place.

THE PROCESS

  • Assessment

    Request a consultation and complete the confidential intake form. This initial information allows us to understand your goals and challenges, determine if our services are a fit, and advise accordingly.

  • Interviews

    If we are a fit, we will schedule your interview(s) and utilize several modalities to gain an in depth perspective of who you are, how you live, and how you love. The interviews identify who would be a compatible fit.

  • Introductions

    Based on your criteria and our compatibility assessments, we seek, engage and present potential connections for your consideration. You review and approve each profile before any plans to meet are made, or details are exchanged.

  • Calibration

    Your feedback allows us to refine our approach, ensuring every subsequent introduction, is more precise than the last. We receive feedback on your behalf to refine ho you show up in the future.

Your Confidant

I spent years believing that the intelligence and drive which fueled my professional success were the same skills needed to sustain a deep and meaningful partnership. I was wrong. Seven years into a long term relationship and business partnership, I woke up and realized that not only had I been disconnected from the patterns that actually dictate the quality of our relationships, but I had made a profound error in judgment and partner selection.

In that moment of clarity, I stopped looking for answers in my partners. It was clear that the common denominator in my failed relationships was me. I started looking at my own inner architecture. I committed to a rigorous process of rewiring my patterns and remodeling my internal relationship with self and love. I began to invest in my self awareness with the same intensity and curiosity I had previously reserved for achieving.

Part of my own recalibration journey took me around the world to live the long list of dream experiences I had once deferred. I learned to ski, I studied my attachment style, I learned to drive standard, and I worked to rewire limiting beliefs and core wounds. Somewhere along the way, I found a version of love for myself that I never realized I lacked, which eventually led to the love I had always imagined having with another.

I have invested hundreds of thousands of dollars in therapy, coaching, and education to understand why we do what we do. Through that process, I realized that the tools I use to read people today are the same tools that made me a successful actor. I am not clouded by judgment regarding personal choices, politics, or proclivities. I have seen them all, and I am too curious to be offended. My work is to listen, to seek understanding, and to remain sensitive to the energy you bring into a room. That genuine compassion and innate curiosity about human behavior has afforded me the honor of confidante and advisor to those I have grown to love, care about, and advocate for.

I am here to represent and nurture your best interest. I am here to take the parts of finding and building connection that have nothing to do with connection off your plate so you can embrace the journey of fine tuning your relationship with yourself and building the kind of connection you deserve.

You have my attention, my honesty, and my care. That is the lens I bring into this work.

The S.E.L.F. Structure

True connection is an extension of how you live. We audit and calibrate your awareness, your lifestyle, and your execution to ensure you are best positioned to attract, recognize, and sustain the connection you desire, with longterm success.

The S.E.L.F. Framework is designed to bridge the space between insight and action. We replace the ambiguity of modern dating and relationships with a structure that is simple to recall and practical in its application.